Is there still chance with this girl?

Well you know you have her in your life and she's not going anywhere so just take things slow, if they're meant to be then she'll start falling for u and u will end up together.. That's how things work, good luck!

When will they start listening?

I don't know exactly how you feel, but I'm pretty much in the same spot. I had 4 kids in 5 years and all of them are big trouble makers. My husband is in the army and hasn't been here for the last nine months. My kids are now 7,5,3,2. It seems that they start being a little better behaved around four years old but starts to get a lot better by five. I still have some issues with behavior though, it feels like they run circles around me sometimes. The key is consistent discipline while they are younger, even if you have to stop what you are doing, or leave a store to accomplish it. When they get older you have heart felt discussions about how their behavior effects you. They will get to the point where they empathize and want to help. My oldest will say, "Mom I know the girls are being bad and you are getting frustrated, what do you want me to do to help?" She is such a sweetheart now, but it is due to the fact that she has learned I don't put up with her crap, and many heart to heart talks. She used to be the worst of all. Oh the stories I could tell. I know it seems sometimes like there is no light at the end of the tunnel when it is 24/7. Keep your head up and fight the good fight. It'll be worth it. Another tip I have is get them involved in the cleaning up. I tell my kids if they can't behave they must need a chore to keep them busy. Even the little ones like taking a wet rag and wiping down the walls. I know yours are still little but they can do something to help mama out. Also I would like to add that they are not too young for discipline. I always start my kids when they are 18 months to two years old. The older they are the harder they are to fight. Let them know who is in charge.

PS3 controller problems like switching.?

Sometimes the controllers will control eachother to a small degree. At one point it paused a game and player 2 controller was controlling player 1 even though the light still said p2. It started a few days ago around the first time i hooked my ps3 to the internet and got my first updates from psn. I think some people had this problem back in 2007. advice... solutions...

I'm writing a detective story set in the prohibition era. What do you think of my main characters?

Your characters sound suited to their parts and it sounds like you know them well enough to flesh them out nicely. Once concern, however, is the lady detective; in the Prohibition Era, this just didn't happen. Best to make her a wannabe--maybe the best one around, but she can't be officially a detective. This will be an element that can provide a lot of tension for your story. :) (If you're not sure what tension is in a story and why you need loads of it, google it--it's really important.)

Should illegals who bring their kids here illegally be criminally charged & have kids taken away from them?

Should illegals who bring their kids here illegally be criminally charged & have their kids taken away from them until they complete all jail time and then send back to their home country along with kids and face a life time ban of ever coming back here ? To put a stop to illegals bringing their entire families over here ?

Does anyone else have this issue?

I would say seeing someone talking to someone might help and if anythign traumatic has happened before you started all this or is happening now you might have PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) which could elevate pretty bad ive been through it myself my best adivce try to talk to someone

How come Illegals who drive without license / insurance feel like they have not committed criminal acts?

The same reason people who have suspended or revoked licenses feel. They know it's wrong, but they still do it, whether it's out of necessity or defiance, only they can say.